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Steffi O
42 y/o
120
44
459
Colchester, United Kingdom
* Colchester near City Centre * BJ / HJ / JOI * BDSM, kink & Fetish
Hello there. I'm Steffi, a friendly and easygoing gal with a mind that is pure filth.
I'm very upfront and like to get straight down to business, so without further ado, here are the dirty details you're looking for...
First, one thing I must be very clear about - I do *not* offer penetration of myself (V or A). There are no exceptions to this, so please don't ask. I do offer lots of other fun things such as:
- JOI
- hand relief
- titfucking
- oral
- dirty talk, practically my 2nd language
- BDSM
- CIM (at discretion), or "C" anywhere else on my body if you like
- more..?!?!
I am also a pro-domme, and kink/fetish specialist. See the BDSM, kink & fetish tab for more details.
I have some vinyl, latex and faux leather outfits, some of which appear in my gallery. I also have a nurse outfit if you fancy a little hospital roleplay. Or I can just wear my everyday clothes, or be completely naked the entire time - it's up to you!
If you want to chat before or after our fun times, you'll find I'm a good listener, and knowledgeable about all sorts of topics (my university education has to be good for something, right?) I'm also a giant nerd so, hey, if you want to talk about Star Trek or comic books, I'm down.
Disabled or neurodivergent clients welcome. My flat has step-free access.
You can't see it in my photos but I wear glasses. A lot of people like the sexy teacher vibe, but if you prefer I can take them off (just don't make me read any small print).
My usual availability is 10am - 10pm at weekends, and 5pm - 10pm weekdays. See the booking info tab for more on how to book me.
In-calls:
I have a lovely flat near the centre of Colchester, with ample on-site parking. If you're coming by public transport, I'm less than ten minutes walk from the bus station and Colchester Town Station.
I usually see clients in my living room, which has a comfy sofa and is always kept clean and tidy. There are yoga mats if anyone is getting down on their knees. If you would prefer the bedroom, that's fine, but please give me advance notice so I can make sure it's ready.
Out-calls:
I can do outcalls within the Colchester area and will consider calls to surrounding towns (e.g. Chelmsford, Ipswich). My rate will be my usual plus a reasonable extra for travel time and costs, so will vary depending on how far I have to go. Message me and we'll work something out!
Please note I ideally require 24 hours notice for both in calls and out calls. If you want to book something more short notice, you are welcome to ask, but I can't guarantee anything.
Here is non-exhaustive list of all the BDSM, kink and fetish activities I am willing to take part in:
- Anal play
- (Light) Bondage
- CEI
- Cuckolding (with couples)
- Domestic servitude
- Financial Domination
- Foot worship (including boot worship)
- Feminisation / sissy training
- Golden showers (giving)
- Human furniture
- Humiliation
- Ignore sessions
- Impact play & spanking
- Orgasm control/denial
- Pet play
- Strap-on play/worship
Please note that where relevant I would be in the Top/Dominant role, and you would be the submissive/bottom. I don't switch for clients.
As a Domme I am strict but have a playful side. I expect obedience and politeness from subs at all times.
My limits
I will not do any play involving the following:
- blood
- ballbusting
- anything with a risk of serious injury
- foodplay
- ageplay
I also do not tolerate any topping-from-the-bottom nonsense. By all means tell me your likes and limits prior to the booking, and do use safewords when you need to, but I ask that you respect me as a professional and do not attempt to take control during the session.
Safe and ethical BDSM
Please let me know of any limits you have, and I shall respect them.
I always require that we establish safewords before any sort of BDSM or kink play. My usual is the traffic light system ("amber" means ease off, and "red" means stop altogether), but let me know if you have a preference of your own.
Three steps for booking time with me:
1. Make sure you've read the "about me" section! Don't approach me asking for services that I don't offer. You'll only be disappointed.
2. Send me an email telling me a little about what you'd like to experience. I appreciate directness. If you prefer me to take charge and decide what we do, that's also fine, just let me know in advance if you have any limits or preferences. Also please let me know what time/day you were hoping to see me.
3. I'll respond as soon as possible (usually within a few hours, unless it's the middle of the night). If I'm happy to book you, and once we've worked out a time, I'll ask you to place your slot using the booking form. And then we're all set for fun times
Deposits
I will request a deposit of £20 for certain first-time bookings, at my discretion. This is to deter timewasters. I accept deposits either via Amazon e-gift card or on W1shtender, both of which are straightforward and completely anonymous. The deposit is non-refundable, but if either of us has to cancel for any reason, your deposit can be transferred to a future meeting so you won't have to pay again.
A few more important things to be aware of:
- I take my health very seriously (I'm immuno-compromised, so viruses can be life-threatning to me). If you at all suspect you may be coming down with something or have been exposed to something contagious, please kindly message me to cancel our booking, and we will reschedule it for when you are feeling better.
- If you turn up under the influence of alcohol or any other substance which impairs judgement I will turn you away
- If you are clearly under age, I will turn you away
- If you are rude, aggressive or cross my boundaries at any point then I will end our session immediately
- And finally it should go without saying but please wash beforehand!
If you can stick to all these things then I will be delighted to spend time with you
| Duration | Incall | Outcall |
|---|---|---|
| 15 mins | 50 | - |
| ½ Hour | 80 | - |
| 1½ Hours | 180 | - |
| 1 Hour | 120 | - |
| 2 Hours | 240 | - |
Prices are shown in GBP
Note: Any money paid to the adult escorts listed on this website is for their time and companionship only. Whatever else that may occur if and when contact is made is the choice of consenting adults.
Alternative Practices:
Cross Dressing
Fetish
Kinky
Messy ('philias)
Other Alternative
Cuckolding
Activity Tags:
15 Mins "quickie"
Anal Play
BDSM
BDSM (giving)
Bukkake
CIM (at discretion)
Disabled Clients
Domination
Domination (giving)
FFM 3Somes
Facials
Fetish
Foot Worship
Hand Relief
Humiliation
Humiliation (giving)
MMF 3Somes
Moresomes
Oral
Oral without (at discretion)
Rimming
Rimming (receiving)
Role Play & Fantasy
Spanking
Spanking (giving)
Spanking (receiving)
Strap On
Striptease
Sub games
Swallow (at discretion)
Tie & Tease
Toys
Watersports
I enjoy these activities with:
Male
Female
Couple MF
Couple MM
Couple FF
Can I have your phone number? |
If we make a booking, I'll give you my number so that we can communicate about it on the day. Otherwise, no! |
Can I perform oral on you? |
Sorry, no. I don't allow clients to lick or touch me down there. |
Can I really cum anywhere on you? |
Yes! Well, maybe not in my ear or something weird like that. But anywhere on my skin, yes. Also onto or into my clothes. |
Can we kiss on the lips / with tongue? |
Nope! I don't want your germs, thanks. |
Will you peg me? |
I would love to peg you! I have my own dildos (see gallery for pics) but you can also bring your own if you like. I prefer that clients douche beforehand, using their own douche. |
Can I bring you a gift? |
No thank you, especially not the traditional ones. I think flowers look nicest growing in the ground, and I just so happen to be allergic to chocolate! If you do want to give me a little extra something, you can tip me and I will treat myself. There is no expectation or pressure for you to do so though. |
| What is your Primary Language? | English |
| What is your Secondary Language? | I speak a little Dutch and Italian |
| How would you describe your non-binary gender? | NA |
| What is your favourite colour? | Dark blue |
| What is your best feature? | Boobs |
| What three words best describe your personality? | friendly, nerdy, horny |
| What is your favourite food? | Papri chaat |
| What is your favourite drink? | Horlicks |
| What is your favourite film? | Everything Everywhere All At Once |
| What is your favourite holiday destination? | Italy |
| What is the colour of your eyes? | Blue |
| What is the colour of your hair? | Brown |
| What length is your hair? | Long |
| How would you describe your body type? | Average |
| How tall are you? | 5'6" |
| How much do you weigh? | 11st |
| What is your shoe size? | 6 |
| What is your dress size? | 12 |
| What is your bra cup-size? | F |
| How would you describe the size of your breasts? | Large |
| Are your breasts natural or enhanced? | Natural |
| How is your pubic hair fashioned? | Shaved Mostly |
| Do you smoke? | No |
| Do you have any tattoos or piercings? | Tattoos |
| If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they | Partially Visible |
| Will you do overnight bookings? | No |
| List of Towns/Areas you will visit | Colchester, maybe others |
| How long are you prepared to travel for? | 45 mins |
| Nearest rail station? | Colchester Town |
| What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public? | You're assuming I would ever feel ashamed? |
| What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had? | Me and a friend... happened out of the blue. It was her first time with another woman. |
| What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!) | At an alternative event, decided to dance topless on a podium. Five minutes later I was having group sex with three people I just met, in front of about 100 people. I'm still close friends with one of them to this day. Also shoutout to the tall guy from Yorkshire who came over to say "crackin' tits luv!" |
| Where would you most like to have sex? | Fancy hotel |
